Wow,

What a jerk to drop that on you at work when you are really powerless to do anything.

You can't make him stay...trust me ... mine left again on monday during the day because he was a coward and couldn't say it to my face nor our kids again.

I wouldn't beleive that about the phone... that's just silly. But it's not really what is important right now is it. Take care of yourself.

My H said he might end up shooting himself if he had to stay here. Of course, he was the only one who brought the unhappiness here but he'll have to figure that one out on his own.

He's mad cause he got "caught".

Sometimes you have to let them go to have them return. Sounds like his journey is not finished and he doesn't desire to work on it. Hold your head high and know that you have done your best and that's all you can do.

Remember to DB his idea... have a couple of those DB phrases ready..

or you can try to other approach which is

"yes I am thinking this isn;t working for me either"


I am really sorry this is happening to you and your family.. Hugs


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too