I'm just shocked after reading though most people's situations. They are all virtually the same. LBS is stunned, and hear/see the same things from spouse: "I need space", ILYBNILY, they get more spiritual, "I'm a different person now", "there's no-one else", "we've both changed", they get tatoos & implants, etc... It's as if they all read from the same textbook on how to leave.
What I wish is that someone could come up with a textbook of signs to read before we start getting all the above BS!
They wouldn't read it. I point out the "warning signs" to people all the time, but 90% of them stick their head in the sand, JUST AS I DID.
You ain't ready until you're ready. And then you are.
