3. I never said I wasn't afraid. I live with the fear of us not reconciling every day....and some days I don't hide it well.
It's entirely OK to be afraid. Terrified, even.
Just not OK to make your DECISIONS based on that fear.
Embrace the fear, lean into it, and call it what it is. And then STICK TO A PREDETERMINED PLAN -- one that is NOT determined with fear in mind, but rather with "What is The Right Thing to Do?" as its foundation.
