BTM there is your problem.. you're afraid. She knows it and is using it to control you. You're still pulling the rope. By your own admission, she is DB'ing you, you know this and still cling to her every action. NOT ATTRACTIVE.
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is doing what she needs for her right now
Correction: she's doing what she THINKS she needs to do.
If you want to be gray, here's a suggestion: Reply to the invitation for two attendees. Drop the subject and don't mention it again. If she asks be evasive. Find a female friend to take with you and GO ENJOY YOURSELF. Women are not attracted to men who are wimps. Your black and white is to either go with your wife or not go at all. Gray is to go without her.
I know my fear is my problem. I am a little further than I was a couple months ago, but still not even close to not being scared.
Correction to your correction - she is doing what she feels she needs to do.
It would be gray for me to go without her. Good point. I work at a small business, so taking a female friend would not be a great idea and honestly I wouldn't like that anyway. I will not bring up the subject and when she aks will go with Puppy's response.
Thanks everyone! One issue down - 10 billion to go.
