Thanks CityGirl. We have a joint mediator, I don't believe she has an attorney, but will wait and see what happens when I see the papers.

Thanks for your advice.

M: 33
W: 31
D: 11, 6; S:2
M: 11y T:15y (H.S. Sweethearts)
Seperated: 8/30/09
Met with Divorce Mediator 10/5/09
Divorce papers filed 11/13/09