Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[Gnosis]

BTM there is your problem.. you're afraid. She knows it and is using it to control you. You're still pulling the rope. By your own admission, she is DB'ing you, you know this and still cling to her every action. NOT ATTRACTIVE.

is doing what she needs for her right now

Correction: she's doing what she THINKS she needs to do.

If you want to be gray, here's a suggestion: Reply to the invitation for two attendees. Drop the subject and don't mention it again. If she asks be evasive. Find a female friend to take with you and GO ENJOY YOURSELF. Women are not attracted to men who are wimps. Your black and white is to either go with your wife or not go at all. Gray is to go without her.