yes, I am clear that I am doing this to myself - not intentionally, but it is still me. W is not doing anything other than steadfastly holding to a position and acting accordingly. It's my mental departures from the reality of the sitch that cause the pain.
Last edited by Thinker; 11/16/0903:40 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.