Pearl,

I have always been traditional for holidays. My son wants tradition and my daughter doesn't really care. My S said dad's hasnt' really been into the holidays lately anyway so let's just make it here.... I know he doesn't realize that after the hoopla when all is done ... it may be a little more lonely.

I offered to take the kids on a mini cruise for Christmas but S says no way... he wants to be home on Christmas and states he won't be dividing up his holiday to spend time with his Dad. I think he means just the day off. He doesn't want to spend Christmas eve with him either because we go to candle light service. I hope by then we can work it out..... I don't want the H to be left out... but honestly it's probably not important to him.

Last edited by sandycay; 11/16/09 03:34 PM.

M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too