Two women pursuing me? I think my ego would feel great..
Wouldn't bother me a bit to have not one, but TWO women fighting over my love...

So.. This goes back to my normal view.. It wasn't until HE let go that you decided that he was worth pursuing. Now that he wants out you want him more than ever. Even though he is with another person you aren't worried whether he is worried about you losing your love for him by not pursuing you, but you ARE worried about him worrying that you must not love him because you are not pursuing him...

The truth is that when a man has another woman he is interested in, that when you pursue, you are risking him using you to cake eat. Most men WILL cake eat if allowed.

Pursue and see what happens.