Now S12 asks today if he can be with Xw next weekend. I will not deny him his desires, so, what can I do? I'm not going to 'force' him to spend his prescribed visitation with me. Now he says they are attending church down there. Whatever. Do I fight it anymore or not? One day the kids say they hate it, the next, they're fine.
I guess maybe S12 has something he wants to do that weekend there? Sometimes the kids have stuff they want to do. I would agree to it, but only if you could trade another weekend the next weekend or whatever, to make up for the missed time. I think kids need both their parents, and I think your S12 will respect/love you for that when he's older.
