Hello, I am a Newcomer and would appreciate any advice to save my marriage. I have been married for 18 yrs and have a child that is 16. In May my husband said he didn't love me any more but that he wasn't moving out. A few weeks ago he admitted that he may have never loved me at all. He wants to stay but he is not willing to give it a try with 100% effort. Also at the same time he was no longer going to give me any physical contact. Hugging,kissing etc.. This has all completely devastated me I saw no signs that he felt this way. When I was 39 we tried to have another child and bought a new house together. I underwent fertility treatments and had two miscarriages trying. I would appreciate any advice. I am purchasing the book Divorce Remedy today.