First post in a month. Things had not changed at all until yesterday. I was snooping around (which I admit I should not have done but now am glad I did)and found that my wife had contacted a lawyer. She had his card and a blank questionaire form. My first response (besides nausea and panic) was to confront her about it but I didn't. I didn't say a word. What should I do now? Should I contact a lawyer or should I wait until I know for certain that she is going through with the process?
If it were me, I would. Just to get a consultation, and to better know what my rights, responsibilities and options are. I would use the newfound knowledge to protect myself.
And I would not tell my wife I did so, and I would RAMP UP (not stop) my snooping, in order to protect myself.
