Yep. Seperate rooms. We hugged for the first timein 3 months last weekend. Had a better than average week. And when that happens, I believe that cognative dissonance sets in. This then causes her to swing 180 to the other side of nice towards me. This vicious circle is directly tied to W stress level. School stress causes her to have anxiety, causes her to lose focus and then she needs a stress release and someone to blame if she does poorly on the test, me. It has happened twice.
We have been doing things as a family, dinner, lunch, movies, tv nite etc. Weekends mostly whenever she is around. I do things with the kids theday she is not in study group. She said last night she wants to have alone time with the kids on the weekends, everyother.
