First Timer

[wolverine1997]

First post in a month. Things had not changed at all until yesterday. I was snooping around (which I admit I should not have done but now am glad I did)and found that my wife had contacted a lawyer. She had his card and a blank questionaire form. My first response (besides nausea and panic) was to confront her about it but I didn't. I didn't say a word. What should I do now? Should I contact a lawyer or should I wait until I know for certain that she is going through with the process? Should I increase my efforts at DB? Should I confront her about it? (I don't think that would be wise as it would prove that I was snooping). I don't really know what to do. I am really distraught and stressed out now. I gotta pull myself together. Any advice from anyone?