H had to have a stint put in. One of his arteries was 90% blocked! Simple procedure. Has him home for a couple of days and have to admit that we had a nice day yesterday. We actually all sat down at the table and ate dinner together for the first time in a long while. I keep hoping that this heart thing will be a wake up call for him! I did go to church yesterday as promised and H did seem surprised at that! The minister was a fill in one from the hospital where H was at. He had actually come into H's room and we prayed and then I see him at church...again...goose bumps! I don't think that was coincidental!
I had bought tickets ahwile back to go see a Blue's performance and H felt up to going so we did go and he actually suggested that I scoot over and sit in the middle of the truck seat on the way there and we had a nice night! He was not able to drink since he had just gotten out of the hospital so that was not an alcohol induced suggestion. On the other side, he had his dang phone on him the whole time he was in the hospital all I could think of was him calling OW when I was gone. I am still torn as I read DB on whether I am to keep being patient and GAL or if I am ready to confront and set boundaries! I know that I will have to be prepared that H will choose to leave if I do that and just not sure I am ready for that! If anyone has anything to add to this I would be grateful! I have confided in a co-worker. She has had "exerience" in that she was having an A on her H with a man who was seperated from his W. She is in the process of D. She keeps telling me that she thinks there is hope, from things I have told her but that I should talk to him about dumping the OW.
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing