I just don't know what to say. You and only you can decide if you are, indeed, done. Is it just too hard, too painful, easier to give up - or are you really sure it won't ever work out? YES, she is a miserable b*tch to you, awful in every way. But are you truly done?
Are you accepting or giving up?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.