I forgot to add one somewhat important thing last night. I had told him about Passionate Marriage and the premise that people mistakenly become emotionally fused and unable to self-validate and how damaging that is to a relationship. I told him the sex parts of the book were interesting, but that the relationship information was very important and valuable.
He agreed to read the book. The night he took it home he read the entire first chapter. The book had a profound impact on me and how I think about being in a relationship. Its encouraging that he is reading it. Who knows what he will think of it, but we often read the same book and then discuss it. Although, none of them before has involved relationships.
Back to cold showers, everyone. Somehow I'm glad though. H hasn't kissed me like the ones at the end of Sunday night in over a year.
I have to run. Lots of homework to do and I have an appointment at the local school district to talk to the school business manager about one of my projects.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.