As for a L. I don't want to make this messy, if this is what it has to be, then I want to do it amicably.
We previously met with a divorce mediator and have been very fair in the division of our assets and placement of kids (50/50).
I've considered my options for stalling the divorce, but isn't that the opposite of DBing? I understand that if I tell the judge, at that final hearing, that I don't want the divorce, he will postpone it. All that would seem to do is upset my wife more.
That is at least 4-5 months off. For now, I will focus on today.
