I feel like giving up one minute and continuing to fight for my marriage the next. The rollercoaster is back to moment to moment. I hate that. Yep, but by now you know how to hold onto that safety bar in front of you real good, right?
People tell me that it is just paper. It is nothing that can't be stopped by just saying "stop" if my wife decides that. SHE can, yes. In my no-fault state respondant/defendant, whatever can stall but not stop D (i.e. contest it and you get court-ordered counseling for x times over x months). If house is in both names, sign nothing! Keep interviewing and interviewing more and more agents until you "find one you like". STALL
I've said all along that my W will NEED to file to know that she can, before anything will happen...either way. I never doubted that she could and was almost positive that she would; but this is still so hard. She wants to schedule a temporary hearing to get finances and assets seperated. That will be tough Get an L if you haven't already, of course.. Happy Holidays.
Anyway, today is going to be an long day and I just want it to be over so I can go back to bed.Understandable. But, no, no, no. LIVE the (seemingly) crappy day. Beddy-bye will come soon enough.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
