Originally Posted By: sandi2
If you feel that the time is now to send the NC letter to your W, then do so. I simply wanted you to be sure that was what you wanted before you sent it.


It's not so much that I feel the time is now, it's more of I don't know what else to do. I don't see any other options available to me. All I want to do is save my M but in lieu of that I feel I need to save myself. If I had other options then I'd consider them but the table is empty as far as I can see.

Last edited by P17; 11/16/09 01:17 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"