Not a very good night of sleep. I am very surprised my W filed on Friday. Wednesday we were in MC and she said she didn't have the money, where it came from between then and Friday I have no idea. I guess it doesn't matter. I haven't seen the papers yet, but she says I will today. Why she filed on Friday and then waited to tell me until Sunday night, I have no idea.
She told me she talked to our real estate agent on Friday and had her draw up papers to list our new house. At noon on Friday our agent was over here and didn't say anything, but did say my wife was by the office. I know she would have said something if there were papers for me to sign. Maybe my wife went back in the afternoon.
I feel like giving up one minute and continuing to fight for my marriage the next. The rollercoaster is back to moment to moment. I hate that.
People tell me that it is just paper. It is nothing that can't be stopped by just saying "stop" if my wife decides that.
I've said all along that my W will NEED to file to know that she can, before anything will happen...either way. I never doubted that she could and was almost positive that she would; but this is still so hard. She wants to schedule a temporary hearing to get finances and assets seperated. That will be tough. Happy Holidays.
Anyway, today is going to be an long day and I just want it to be over so I can go back to bed.
