Originally Posted By: Arwen_in_NJ
Just a quick observation. Your reply to her text (which seemed civil enough) just oozed anger. Just in that one little sentence. My mother would have called it "snippy". Nyah-nyah-nyah. Like a little kid.

IF all is not well in her little paradise and IF she may be showing some interest in you and what you are doing and who you may or may not be seeing, are you someone she would feel safe coming back to?



My reply wasnt meant to come across as that. It is one of the reasons I hate texts. I already said to W to call me rather than text. She did it twice and then has gone back to texts. No more texts from me - calls only. Have left a vm asking W to do the same.

I was just trying to be civil and to the point with the text.

This is something that does cause me issues though. Being nice, caring and loving (read needy, weak and clingy) has helped to get me to this stage. All I want to do now is be civil and factual.

Last edited by P17; 11/16/09 09:52 AM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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