One thing keeps coming up with my W. She is so certain I do not want her anymore or our marriage.

Did I do detachment wrong? I took a step back over the last few days and did a lot of thinking. I am not sure what to make of what I came up with. Have I become a WAS?

I have no attachment to a spouse
I am feeling good about my self
I do not worry about my spouse
I went to a dating site to gaze into the sea of fish

my only difference is I haven't walked out on my responsibilities. I do take care of my kids, the house, the shopping, paying bills, laundry, going to work etc etc.

But it is a little unnerving.