Robz... Thanks for the post. I guess there is a degree of being too close and seeing it like someone can from outside the sitch.
Lately I don't take crap. I let it be known when I don't like something that is happening. I am sure there are quite a few things I do take. I have noiced that I do things to save my kids from disappointment from W. That is an area I noticed and have started to work on correcting.
The comment about being "where she is" is about not wanting the marriage to continue. Eg. My dating website forray...
