I left town with S12 for a tournament this weekend. In the past six months when I would leave town I would find myself thinking about W and wondering what she is doing and lamenting the fact that I didn't have anyone at home to call and talk about what was going on at home, what was going on where I was, and other normal conversations with a spouse when you leave town.
This weekend was different - I really didn't think about her much. We had a lot of fun. I wasn't looking forward to seeing her when I got home.
She has been sorting through old clothes and pictures, getting her things in order to move from the looks of things.
MIL came over and had a long talk with her Friday. apparently it was very emotional and she told W many things about what she SHOULD be doing abotu her M. It was the kind of stuff that WAW typically doesn't listen to - she needs to cut off contact with OM, she needs to try working on her M, etc etc. My mother has been reaching out to her as well - wants W to see her psychiatrist.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline