Pearl - you are right. I am scared. I don't feel like I am in the right place to do it yet. I need to get my stuff in order. So if I replicate what I did before...wouldn't I be acting as a WAS? (have not read the books yet...waiting for my mail still)
Puppy - You are pretty sure there is a OW. I am one of those people that need hard evidence. With all his logged time on the computer, EA is so plausible. I have been mulling over a keylogger and I am pretty sure I would not be able to install it. H has both linux and windows and he sets them up with admin/users accounts with pswds. Unless I can hack his pswds, don't think I can do it. And I have noticed this weekend, his cell phone has not left his side, tucked in his back pocket, mowing the grass, walking the dog, it goes with him everywhere.
And he is back in the spare bedroom again for the last 2 nights. What is the deal with that? I don't understand his bed hopping. I messes with my mind. But I do sleep in the middle of the bed now so when he does sleep with me, he has hardly any room.
And just an fyi... my 1st marriage, his 2nd marriage.
