Keep the faith, Dave. My sitch shows that anything can happen; right now my XW is in the living room waiting for me to watch our grandson so she can check her e-mail. And with some of the issues I have that is nothing short of remarkable! We've become much more affectionate lately; not TOO intimate yet but slowly working that way and it's a nice and necessary part of this process.

And Mar, it brings me so much hapinness to see your progress!

Keep the faith, both of you!

Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10