Counseling conundrums

[The Wifey]

Hi SpyBunny. Think Safety first. You do not tell him, warn him, talk numbers or anything like that. He has been physically, sexually and emotionally abusive to you. Get your apartment, get your stuff moved when he is out and leave him the name and number of your attorney to break the news.

It is not right for him to drop his pants and expect service, f*ck other women, put it in while you are asleep, and for him to tell you the problems are you.

Get out. Get out now. Bug the landlady instead of waiting for her. And do NOT tell him where you are going. It won't be easy, but you must do this for your safety.