Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[Gnosis]

well, this evening, after avoiding 24 phone calls 4 texts and 4 vmails,

You did a great job!

she finally caught one of my Sons and told him it was an emergency to talk to me. then, she went into "its not what you think' speech"

Uh huh. Her emergency, not yours.

Rather than let it go, I basically gave her the ROBX speech.

I'm glad you've finally started standing up for yourself. This is the beginning of her getting respect for you again. If you go for D this will help you.

I didnt like telling her that "Motel LBS" was closed, but the time had come.

Yes, it had.

Of course, legally, i cannot keep her out.

Yeah, I know that, you know that but... let her figure that out for herself. It's time she starts to accept some responsibility for her actions.

But now she knows I am done.

And hopefully so is her affair with OM. Only then can you start really DB'ing. (I know you don't want to hear that, but it seems that's how it works.)

Finsihsed being treating like crap, like a doormat.

Thank God. This is the attitude to have. Now you no longer FEAR her or her angry outbursts. You have regained control.

I am emotinoally spent and looking forwardto sleep and excercise tomorrow.

I hope you have a GOOD night's rest. You deserve it. Tomorrow is another day. A great one!