I seriously doubt that her gaslighted version of the visit is remotely correct. More likely, SHE was upset that you came and invaded HER visit.
What exactly does this mean (I never figured it out)? This is probably it. Exactly. You're right!
Originally Posted By: The Wifey
The gaslight effect is when someone systematically makes you think you are all wrong, going crazy, its all your fault and you just don't realize it. She was on a visit and never expected the man that she has demonized to show up when she was with her grand baby. Just imagine that you were the last person she expected to share that experience with. As I said, so sad, too bad.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
