Gardener, heh well it does make a tad more sense as an endpoint of that post, which was just sharing some thoughts (and with an acknowledgement of something you said too) smile.

I think it fits in giving helpme an encouraging perspective for now ...


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.