That sucks yes. But you're NOT destroyed, and you won't be.

Reminds me of something I posted in my thread earlier today: "Perhaps the simple point is LBS should not let what robbed their WAS of the ability to love them, also rob their own self-love, or their capacity to be loved."

It's still your choice, your life. Be strong.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.