Hi Cutterbug-

Yes, I know intimacy is more than just sex. And I know I have a problem with intimacy. Or I did--now in my current emotional mess, no boundaries state, I'm blabbing my feelings to anyone who will listen! Perhaps I need a happy medium.

I will read up on your sitch and hopefully we can both learn.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process