It amazes me how much pain they seem to take or avoid thry lose everything and still they keep going seemingly unaffected at least that is how I see my X maybe it is the OW keeping him up as snodderly said I see my xh also has lost it all although he still has a car and a OW wife and I agree with the others, not sure I want to see what it will look like if/when it ever happens peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow