Yikes! Need help, please.

[TrentC]

I wasn't planning on getting involved with him and her, I'm just unsure of how to handle me and her. She says if we fix this, she'll be civil, but she'll never feel the same about him.

Remind her that this is your marriage and your husband, and the ultimate disposition of both is up to you.

I don't discuss the salient details of my relationship with my parents much any more, even with things seeming to be on the mend. All they need to know is when things look like they're going to work out.