Help... I need to stop reacting!

[Deep]

Hahaha, I just could not stop an image of a solemn dog mouthing: "Do or not do, there is no try".

Whatever the case, you sound much better this last week, rocked. There are few easy or simple decisions in sitches. Separating or not, you have to let the consequences of what H is doing come home to roost with him, I think that's essentially what CG is saying. You think he's scared now, wait till it really starts to dawn on him.