((((Bunny)))) I don't know the full details of your sitch either, but I agree 100% with the advice you are getting here from your DB family. Please, please put your own well being and safety first. You are stronger than you know. You will do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Abuse wears many faces, and when they are not physical it can be difficult to detect. Please pay attention when so many of us who are looking at your sitch from an outside perspective see the same things. Sometimes when you are living in a sitch for so long you can't see it yourself.
We are here for you. I will pop in from time to time so keep us updated. Rocked