Counseling conundrums

[courts0818]

Hi Bunny,
I don't know everything that you are going through (I just checked out the last 5 pages or so). But...I totally agree with others. At this point, you have to be concerned with your own safety. You just never know how he's going to react. It's quite apparent that your H not only wants, but feels it's his right to control everything. You are taking the control away from him and he's not going to like it. So, you have to be smart and protect yourself.

Hold tight and don't say anything until that lease is signed and you are 100% sure that you have your own place. And please create a safety net for yourself through family, friends, co-workers and so forth.

I also agree that you need to tell your lawyer everything. I'm sure it will be uncomfortable, but this is about getting you everything you deserve and about keeping you safe.

You are very strong and brave. You can do this.

Thinking about you! Hugs!