Okay, just sharing this fyi. I am truly perplexed by ex's behavior. Open to opinions on this. Well, I'm always open to opinions.

As you know, he has been acting nutty and pursuing me like a stalker. Constant stuff, txts, calls, emails, all in my biz at S's games, etc. Asking me to go out on dates. I am not interested in anything more than parenting and maybe friendship (somewhat, I really don't like him) with him and have repeatedly told him so.

The kids were spending the night with my mom Fri. and son told ex and ex asked me several times to go out with him. I declined.

He has repeatedly told me that he was done with the little girl (for weeks he's been insisting). So, I figured he was lonely and that's why he was bugging me so much.

Fast forward to today. Have learned (through a friend) that he has set up a new ms page (he shut down his old one when he supposedly broke up w her). Has pics of the kids, my D WITH her (og, which I do NOT like at all) and a nasty skanky pic of her in what looks like just a bra with the title The Mrs.

Okay, he can do whatever he wants, but my thing is this. Why on earth is he still stalking me trying to make my life miserable if he is still w her and they are close enough to post pics of her and my d, etc. This is crazy stuff. I just can't wrap my head around it. If he is with her then leave me ALONE.

I know OP's are not unusual at all, but most do not PURSUE their ex while with the OP, right? What the heck is up?

I feel like I have to walk on eggshells constantly and hide my personal life b/c of how crazy he is... but yet he puts all this out for the world to see. What is up with that?


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me 33, s 9, d 4