Maybe it's a wound, not a void. A wound that time, and time alone, heals. I think we can, with the right medicine, speed up the process. But, it still takes time.
Yes! I think ya nailed it! (even though we all do have some holes and voids)
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac