SR, From your posting, it appears that you are doing well. I think one of the reasons is that your h travels quite a bit so you and the little ones have had to learn how to do things on your own. This is great!
There is no way to figure out where he will be in 12 months. I suspect that he may push for the divorce all of the way. Once they start the ball rolling, it's almost like they don't know how to turn things around and stop the ball. I would plan for the worse and hope for the best.
I'm very, very sorry to have read about what is on his mind these days.
Please take care of yourself and your toddlers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
