Although I have lurked in your sitch, I don't know everything. Gardener let me know that you needed some support, so here I am. Please listen to everyone who is telling you to wait to tell your H until the lease is signed and you are ready to go. Because of your description of the passive-agressive violence and his need for you so he can be with other women, I am fearful for your safety.
GIMA said to tell your attorney everything; so if you haven't already done so, please do. And have your escape plan ready just in case.
You will be in my prayers.
bim
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
