Well, I am divorced, but not with current X per se. We never really married. I was previously married and have an older D16 from that Relationship. Now with my "X" we have a D3 and have been split for over a couple of years now. We have been in the courts for visitation and support though. All this mess is much like a divorce. The counselor we did go to said it was as well.
I have been dating some and I kind of figured the X has been as well. It is just tough hearing the words from her mouth. I want to think the aspects going on with the X has a lot to do with the dynamics of where we are today as opposed to who she is, but I do think that is kind of who she is though. scary.
Hate I got myself mixed up in this stuff. I def need to get out and date more. It is tough bc I have my D a good bit of time and then I work a a lot as well. Probably a contributing factor as to why I have had pblms in my relationship as well. Do people get second chances? wow..
