help! starting to feel guilty about going out tonight....my husband is coming home from 3 days on the road and i was all set to be out when he got here my well meaning and mostly very wise sister said that if i am trying to work things out, i should be here when he gets home it also didn't help that he left a voicemail telling saying that he was at the airport on his way home (yes, i am reading into the fact that he used that word) and letting me know when he would get to the east coast help!!!!! i think i am still going to go out