I don't know your full sitch (just read the last couple of pages of posts). I did want to chime in and say that I completely agree with Breakaway, Lost Rabbit, and Gardener. Do not present your plan to H until a) the timing is right, especially for you; b) you have signed the lease; and c)you have some type of support network lined up to physically stop by and check in with you.
I will be praying for you.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning