my W doesn't regret her affair

[antlers]

And yeah, absolutely, you need to turn this over to God. "Commit your works to the Lord, and your thoughts will be established." You'll then have the hard work to do, based on the "established thoughts," but the OUTCOME -- the TOTALITY OF THE SITUATION -- that is what you have to give over to God.

Give God the outcome, the entirety of the sitch, and ask for WISDOM, DISCERNMENT and CLARITY, as well as the courage to do with it what needs to be done. As He does, then the hard work is yours to do, as noted above, but you can still lean on Him for help every day.

Thanks...from a lot of us here.