So, you assume there is someone else? I've been thinking your reconciliation sounded very similar to the one we tried last year. And since my judgement is affected by my experience I didnt want to insist since you said you've been snooping and lokking for clues and didnt find anything. I will be very surprised if there isnt an OW in your case as well.
Which of course doesnt make anything easier and if you confirm it it makes all the deceit and lies hurt like stubbing. Because we didnt FORCE them to come back and they did only to continue their stupid series of disrespecteful choices.
I dont know what to wish for you. In my case, the knowledge she existed helped me regain my trust to my little voice and self. K
