So I hear a lot that you can't trust anything that the say and only half of what they do. So if you can't trust anything they say how will you know when it is working?? And since you can't trust how they act, how are you suppose to know what is going on with them?? Very confused about that. And why is it that you can't trust anything they say?? I think some of the things people say are very true. Thanks
I personally dont believe the idea "that you can't trust anything that the say and only half of what they do."
If someone says to you, "I dont love you anymore" then take that at face value, they are not in love you. Believe them.
If someone says to you, "I hate you" then they have some anger issues directly related to you. Believe them.
If someone says to you, "You might as well get it somewhere else I am not having sex with you anymore." Believe them. You are not hopping in the sack anytime soon with them.
If you are hearing these things and they are upsetting you then its time to evalulate your co-dependence and yourself as an individual. Know yourself. Develop confidence in yourself. Self respect. Realize what makes you happy. Because you alone are responsible for your happiness, not someones elses love.
How can you know when "its" working? When hearing these things does not effect you emotionally.
