Originally Posted By: confusedinpa


She then said if she has to pay more to support the boys that would really put her in a bad spot financially.

She will freak when she finds I filed for spousal support.



Well what kind of "bad spot" did it put you in for her to cheat on you, lie to you, and tear your family and your marriage apart?

What do you think she would have done had the situation been reversed? She would have likely crushed you in every way possible.


Do as you advised me to do CIPA...take care of yourself and your kids...first and foremost.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.