What if you invited friends or other family to your Thanksgiving? Or you could start a new, fun tradition with just the three of you. Turkey day in the living room, picnic style with a pile of movies and games...I'm not feeling particularly creative, but you get the idea.
Now is the time to be true to yourself. Your H made his choice, and he doesn't seem particularly anxious to spend family moments with his kids.
Whatever you do, make it special for you and the kids.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!